My primary interest in life is to understand why people do the things they do and thus to understand why I do the things I do.


In the Yogaspandakarika the aim of Tantra is defined as the “undoing” of our “harnass or cuirass”. In psychotherapy it is called our “defense mechanisms”. I am a practitioner of Tantra as it focuses on the central axis in our body: the relationship between the Divine and our Ego. Tantra can be one of the fastest ways for anyone to disable your defense mechanisms. It takes courage, a very safe environment and a high level of awareness and presence to step into that “freeing of the core”. I’m old enough to share a vast amount of mistakes and successes and to be able to create such a “safe” space. It is my life’s passion to do so.


Next to being a Tantrika, I am a Numerologist (numerology of the Pentagram), a Transformation Game facilitator; Men’s Group facilitator (Order of Honorable Men), Freemason, Primal Childhood Deconditioning Co-Facilitator and Businessman.

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Niels  Pilaar